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groom well and immerse yourself in Indonesian culture (i.e. How to date them: Don't flirt with them in public. I had a Sundanese girlfriend for several years and all her friends were getting some benefits from their respective boyfriends. The Ones Who Don't Dare Many Indonesian girls do not dare dating foreigners because they are shy. They don't know the codes of dating someone from another culture: What to say, what to do, how to behave, etc.
They stick to the same closed group when they party, they do not use dating sites and they politely turn down any outsider trying to flirt with them. They will choose a boyfriend who will give them a better status. Once you belong, you will date any girl easily. When an Indonesian girl is dating a foreigner, it's just as if she was wearing a big sign saying "I'm not a virgin anymore". As a friend explained me, most serious expats are married or in a relationship. For this reason, some Indonesian girls may feel that they should date an Indonesian guy because it is natural and less complicated.